I used to be under the impression that lingerie was a prerequisite for sexiness, but the more I think about it, the more it feels like a gimmick. Inner sexy – the kind that comes from what makes you you, is the BEST kind of sexy, and you don’t need lacy, Victoria’s Secret Angel-esque get-ups for that. That shit’s uncomfortable anyway…

How we show up for sex has nothing to do with what we wear, it’s all about the feel. Why am I calling BS on this whole lingerie thing? 

In this episode, I hope you’re feeling sexy without all the frills. We’re going to talk about the truth about lingerie.



Feeling sexy makes you sexy. -Heather Bartos


3 Things We Learned From This Episode

  • How to feel sexy in whatever you wear to the bedroom 
  • Why lingerie is like tiramisu 
  • The true, original intent of lingerie, and how we got away from that